Warning, before reading, no intent to offend anyone, as I always say, but it's really some food for thought.
1. People who lie. If you're going to lie to my face, don't waste your breath.
2. People who complain about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE! Seriously, life can't be that bad, that everything annoys this shit out of you. If you don't like something or someone, avoid it! We all complain about things every now and then, which is fine, but why dwell on such little unimportant details of things that just don't matter!!
3. People who pretend to care about your life, but in reality they don't give a shit. It's obvious the people who care, and for the people who don't, instead of trying to look like you care, join the people who don't care and quit making yourself look like an ass!
4. People who dwell on "their horrible past" and use it as an excuse to not move on, to not learn from it, and not make their lives better. Get over it, get help for it, or learn to deal with it...life's too short!
5. People who walk away from family or friends, all because something better came along. They are a part of your life, only at their own convenience.
6. People who have no sense of humor, drive me crazy. I understand not everything is funny, but when life is giving you lemons, try to find some humor in something. Not only is laughter good for the soul, but sometimes there's nothing you can do to fix the problem, so in the meantime, smile and laugh it off. And...there's nothing wrong with being silly every now and then.
7. People who treat their children like crap. They claim to be supportive and caring parents, but really, I don't see it. You made the choice to bring them into the world, so quit complaining about them, discipline them when needed, spend lots of quality time with them and show them unconditional Love. Always, no matter what....be there for them.
8. People who don't take time to care about themselves, therefore, cannot care about others. (Derek thinks I care too much about others, and that's why I have such high expectations of people). Wouldn't the world be a much better place if people started caring not only about themselves....but about others? When you see someone going through a rough time or not, walk up to them and give them a hug. Best thing you can do to make someone feel good. (I know, I do it almost everyday).
9. People who criticize the things you do or say, then they turn around and do exactly the same thing. Damn hypocrites!
10. People who criticize others for trying to lead happy lives. It's not that I am always happy or lead a perfect life, it's just that I try to focus on more positive things. Plus, I have 3 girls that need someone in their life that is a positive influence and role model.
Take a deep breath, smile and focus on leading a Happy life, because it really is too short!
xoxo :)
